Before I start this post, I would like to inform you that I do not celebrate Valentine’s Day. I decorate, because I like having an extra tree with pretty lights and hearts around, but that is the most I do. I am in a loving marriage, I love my husband more than I can describe, I just don’t see a reason in celebrating our love only one day of the year. Yes, I know, it sounds cliche, but I want to show him love and shower with gifts any moment and not because it is socially expected of me every 14th of February to get some chocolates, some red flowers and eat sushi. I simply don’t see the reason to try to sit through an expensive dinner, follow with a movie and the pressure of this day is just out of this world! “What did you get for Valentine’s Day? Where are you guys going?” The whole situation is just not my cup of tea.
You want to put a smile on your girl, boy etc? There are so many ways you could, that doesn’t involve Valentine’s day.
-Pick them up from work and simply take them out on their favorite restaurant.
-Rub their feet after a long day.
-Listen to them and ask about them.
-Make a full day just for them, their favorite store, watch their favorite movie, give them their favorite candy.
-Take them on a trip, as a surprise.
-Try a new activity, eg bungee jumping.
See, just on the top of my head, there are many things you can do for your so and it doesn’t have to be a teddy bear and some chocolates. But, there are people who love this day. All the euphoria, happy feelings, friends expressing their love (see galentine’s day) are enjoyable to them and that is when you have to listen to your partner’s wants and needs and find what suits you as a couple. My husband and I are perfectly fine with having a day in and enjoying the heavily discounted candy the day after! To each his own! See, there are many pros and cons in this holiday and if it works for you, I fully support you and cheer you on! Only thing I ask of you, next time you see someone with a more cynical point of view of this day, please don’t judge them and if you want to find out why they don’t enjoy the day, simply ask!
But for the ones that do enjoy Valentine’s Day, I have found some wonderful pictures that I think you might enjoy, or send to your sweetheart and bring a smile to their face! If by any chance you have a rock hound, send them the jasper heart, they will enjoy it the most!!
Do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? Yes, no and why? Please give us your answer in the comment section!
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